Wondering what the number ONE mistake almost everyone makes with the opposite sex is?
I see this ALL the time, it truly is an epidemic... It basically comes down to this:
A complete lack of education on the opposite sex.
No, I'm not talking about the technicalities of great lovemaking (there's no point knowing that if you don't ever get to it!) - I'm talking about at the very least just knowing the BASIC similarities and differences in the way we FUNCTION as different genders.
I'm not saying you need a PhD in male-female psychology just to meet someone, have great sex or a great relationship, but I am asking you to look at exactly how much EFFORT you are making now to understand the opposite sex, and whether you are WILLING to put in a bit more to change the RESULTS you are getting with them.
Now, if you're already experiencing satisfaction and success with your dating and/or relationships, great! But if you're NOT, then I'd like to remind you of this:
So, if you want something better, something different, you're going to have to change SOMETHING, right? But WHAT?
Fortunately, there are people out there who have already spent a LOT of time looking at WHAT NEEDS TO CHANGE to be successful with the opposite sex. You don't have to spend DECADES working it out for yourself like these people did.
Look seriously, how old do you want to be before you get a handle on this part of your life? The only REAL shortcut is to get an EDUCATION from people who've already spent their time working it out for you.
I'm not talking fluffy relationship advice column stuff here - which is usually WAY off because it's just too shallow and general - I'm talking tried and tested knowledge for you to find and maintain a truly satisfying sexual and social life - whatever that is for you.
For most people there's something blocking them that I want you to be able to GET OVER right now:
The imaginary shame of not knowing already.
Do NOT fall for this shit! Men and women who are NATURALLY successful with the opposite sex are the EXCEPTION, not the 'norm'. The majority of people are terrible at this stuff, so they barely even try, end up 'settling', or rely on bad tactics like getting themselves or the opposite sex drunk.
Actually, to take a real world example, if you want to look at the 'dating guru' scene, the most realistically successful are those who were so bad at 'picking up girls' that they made a DECISION to LEARN as much as they could about it.
Unfortunately, there seems to be this crazy misconception that learning about how men and women relate is somehow taking the fun and naturalness out of the whole interaction. NOTHING could be further from the truth! The more aware two people are, the more enjoyable and natural the ENTIRE interaction becomes.
SO WHAT if the only real place where cutting edge information and research on male and female interaction is being looked at is in the so-called 'seduction' or 'pick-up' community.. You don't need to adopt that entire mentality just to learn some extraordinarily interesting things from some brilliant people that WILL change your life for the better.
I'm telling you right now, NOTHING has changed my life so drastically as LEARNING this stuff, because nothing has been so much CRAZY INTERESTING FUN! The quality of my interaction with the opposite sex has increased a hundredfold and given me experiences I never would have had otherwise.
The only question is: are you ready to learn?
If so, you're not going to even hesitate in taking the first step. And to me, that is a BASIC EDUCATION on ATTRACTION:
If you're NOT ready to learn, I'm truly sorry, there's nothing I or anyone else can do for your success with the opposite sex, you are just going to have to blindly blunder through it like everyone else, making the same mistakes over and over again - and if you're EXTREMELY lucky recognizing some of them for yourself and changing them. Good luck with that!
But if you're having second thoughts about how much time and energy you can afford to waste in your life finding out what people who already know can easily tell you, then it's probably a good idea to go here to get started:
- Make sure you take the opportunity to check out our Dating Advice Guides for Men, for Women, and for Sex and Relationships.